One thing I have learnt from children, among the inexhaustible things.
What seems very trivial to us, is major and serious to them.
If we dismiss or even reprimand them for what they feel without investigating why they feel this way, they will either not tell us about their feelings anymore or learn the adult way of suppression of their purest feelings.
Children don't know how to hide their feelings. That's their beauty, that's purity.
Seemingly, adults are like children in viewing things. What seems trivial to one is major to another.
Conflicts arise when we disregard the feelings of others, when we dismiss what is important to others, when we choose to or unintentionally misconstrue the opinions of others, even when facts are presented.
While we should try all means to resolve conflicts, we also have to accept that some are not ready or open to reconciliation as yet.
Most important thing is, let's do our part.
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